Your pictures and posts give me hope. Your healing aside from the arm issues is excellent, but I have to ask if you are okay with sharing. How old are you/were you when you got the surgery? I’m looking into phalloplasty as well but I’m terrified of waiting for too long. I don’t want to be getting the surgery when I’m 40.

Aaaa, thanks so much! And no trouble at all– I’m 34 right now, 35 this late October. Which is Tumblr ancient, I’m aware. But not too old to step up for phalloplasty!

I’ve seen folks in their 60s on various online phalloplasty patient forums, so anyone who tells you you’re too old likely hasn’t looked around for very long. [nod nod]